Imagine a lady walking down a quiet neighborhood street with a toddler in hand. She walks ever so slowly as the toddler takes small steps, talking gently with the child as she walks. This is the picture I witnessed as I drove away from a single mom’s home last week. The lady walking was a volunteer with Beyond the Walls. I met the volunteer at the single mom’s house to look at a flooring project. She needs linoleum (which is already purchased) installed in her kitchen. It was unlike any floor I have ever seen in a long time. Worn wood-flooring from many years of use and patched with pieces of plywood, this home would look unlivable to most American families. But to a mom living in poverty, it offers a roof over her family’s head and security vs living in a shelter.
This, however, is the picture I hope we will grasp for the coming year: Christ followers walking hand-in-hand through life difficulties with a single mom and her kids; ladies as mentors with single moms, and men and women of all ages mentoring the children of single moms. How do we pull this off? I invite you to join me in this discussion in months to come. I desire and need your advice. I’ll be talking to other mentoring ministries to compare best-practices. All I know right now is that with dads absent in the single-mom-home, the children could use a mentoring relationship from a stable Christian adult – young or old.
I love a quote by Ed Stetzer, preacher/church planter/husband/father, “At Christmas, Jesus does not just want you to remember what he did; he wants you to join him in what he is doing.” Let's join Jesus in walking with these single-mom families!
